In the UK? Call NHS Choices on 111 and consider the ideas below.
It will be Self-Injury Awareness Day (SIAD) on the 1st of March. Check our SIAD page for downloads and details.
Trigger warning: This page deals with caring for wounds, and therefore uses medical words that might upset some people.
Cutting
When you need to SI please find a safe place where you will not be disturbed and that you feel calm in, always use new blades where you can and have your first aid kit ready to hand. LifeSIGNS does not encourage the use of self injury, we simply accept that self injury is a coping method for some people at this time, and we do encourage people who are determined to self injure to do it in as safe and controlled way as possible to minimise harm.
The main points when considering first aid after cutting is that you must control the bleeding and prevent any possible infection.
If you lose a great deal of blood, you can go into shock. This can get pretty serious as the brain and heart can be deprived of much needed blood.
Once the urge to cut yourself has passed and you can concentrate on treating your injuries you need to be sure to:
- Assess the damage. If blood is pumping out from the injured area, in time to your heartbeat then this means you have cut through an artery as blood is under high pressure when pumped from the heart- therefore immediate direct-pressure is needed, and you must not remove pressure at all for at least 3-5 minutes – consider calling an ambulance;
- When the area of the wound is particularly large then try and press the edges together to prevent further damage;
- The bleeding needs to be controlled to make sure blood loss is minimal. Cover the wound with a clean dressing and apply direct pressure to prevent bleeding;
- When blood trickles or oozes out of a wound then it is a less immediately serious injury, but veins, tendons and nerves may still have suffered damage;
- If the area of injury is on a limb then raise the limb to reduce blood flow to the area, reducing blood loss and allowing time for a blood clot to form.
When direct pressure is not appropriate, such as when something is stuck in the would, then you may use indirect pressure by pressing the would together – do not remove the object, but call for an ambulance. Some people suggest using a tourniquet to give indirect pressure and reduce blood loss, but using a tourniquet requires a lot of skill and so you should call for medical assistance.
- First Aid from NHS Choices (111)
- First-aid manuals from the Dept of Transport
- Need to talk now? See the available Helplines
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Burning
If your method of SI is burning by scalding or using a heated object then the most important thing you can do is lower the temperature of the affected area. The tissue damage that has been caused can progress very rapidly so you must rinse the area under cold running water for at least 10 minutes.
Do not apply any creams, balms, oils, moisturisers or anything except cold running water.
If there is any clothing surrounding the burn please remove this by either taking it off or cutting it away; this also applies to removing constricting objects such as rings, watches, bracelets; just take it off. This is done because once tissue has been burned or damaged swelling of the area will follow; also the tissue can become sticky and attach to clothes or other things. IMPORTANT If there is anything that is already stuck to the burn, DO NOT remove it, this could make the situation worse.
The skin can also be burned when it is exposed to certain chemicals. If the chemical you have used is liquid, wash this off with lukewarm water for at least 30 minutes. If the chemical is dry, then brush the chemical off before rinsing the area in water. Please do not try and neutralise the chemical; if you have used an acid DO NOT try and reverse it by adding an alkali.
All chemical burns should be referred to a Doctor, either by attending your local Walk-in-Centre or the nearest A&E Department.
Self-harm and self-injury
http://www.lifesigns.org.uk/what/
Self-harm is an umbrella term, that includes self-injury.
Overdosing / ingesting toxic substances
If you have taken an overdose or have ingested toxic substances, then medical attention must be sought immediately. Sometimes the effects can be delayed, so even if you feel fine at the moment you might not be. Never induce vomiting. When you go to A&E take along with you the packaging from the medication or substance which you have taken. Not seeking help can result in long-term irreversible damage or death, even if this was not what you intended to occur, so it is very important.
Who self-injures? And why?
Is the idea of deliberately hurting yourself baffling to you?
Self-injury can provide temporary release from overwhelming emotional distress.
Why hurt yourself?
http://www.lifesigns.org.uk/who-self-injures/
Men and self-injury
http://www.lifesigns.org.uk/male-si/
When to seek medical attention
It is very important that you tell someone if you have hurt yourself severely or if you have taken an overdose / swallowed chemical substances. It is normal to be scared, but it is essential to get proper medical attention as quickly as possible. The following bullet points give some situations where medical attention should be sought, however it is not exhaustive.
If you are ever in doubt, phone NHS Direct on 0845 4647 or contact your GP, and they will give advice. NHS Direct will provide you with a trained nurse to talk to almost immediately.
- If the wound continues to bleed heavily once you have carried out the above steps, including bandaging;
- If the cut is deep and has exposed underlying muscle, this is dark red in colour and may look like a slab of meat;
- If you have lost sensation in the area of injury, or more widespread; you may have damaged a nerve;
- If a burn is on a sensitive area of the body (e.g. face), over a joint or on the palm – the healing process creates scar tissue that can shrink the skin, causing potential movement difficulties for life;
- If a burn is severe, or large in area;
- If a burn is caused by chemicals;
- If after a few hours or several days you can see the wound is infected; it could be red, sore, swollen or weeping.
Talk to NHS Choices now on (111) – call them from the UK simply by dialling 111.
- First Aid from NHS Choices
- First-aid manuals from the Dept of Transport
- Need to talk now? See the available Helplines.
Getting help from your doctor
You don’t *have* to talk about self-injury
http://www.lifesigns.org.uk/getting-help/
There may come a time when you want to get real-life help and support for your self-injury.
You may not want to talk to your doctor about self-injury, and you don’t have to!
You can ask to speak to a counsellor.
References and further reading
Colins Gem: First Aid; Dr. R.M. Youngeon
Cutting the Risk; Self Harm Network
www.bbc.co.uk/health/first_aid/
First Aid from NHS Choices.
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You may want to think about reducing the noticeability of your scars, or even camouflaging them.
66 Comments
Rosie
August 10, 2023I have been self-harming since I was 7 and taken from my mom and I am 14 now but I feel reliant upon it and I am not sure how to stop. I also do not know how to clean a wound because I do not use a blade to cut myself. I use broken glass, does this increase the chance of infection??? I also do sometimes cut to a point where I should call 999 but I am scared because they may put me back in a mental health hospital. Everyone always tells me to just stop cutting but its not that simple!!!!
Does anyone have any advice?
Nick
August 17, 2023Hi. I suspect broken glass might be dirty and could cause problems, also maybe a little bit would get stuck into the skin. Do you have any ongoing care after a hospital stay? Could you speak with your GP? I hope you soon find the help you are seeking.
Evie
March 16, 2023I never use a new blade, and I am a bit worried about infection and scarring. Would it help to use an antiseptic wipe after cutting to reduce the possibility of infection?
Sue
May 26, 2023Yes I would clean those would’ve once the bleeding has stopped. And then using an antiseptic wipe afterwards cannot hurt but all. Im no expert but do have experience.
Sue
May 26, 2023Yes I would clean the affected area once the bleeding has stopped then using an antiseptic wipe afterwards cannot hurt but all. Im no expert but do have experience.
Sue
May 26, 2023Hi Evieg I apologise for the first misspelt and jumbled message. It drives my family and loved ones crazy. Im terrible for it. I hope yr ok.
Pop
October 26, 2022How do I tell if a cut is infected?
Caoimhe
April 28, 2023Signs of infection could include redness, heat, swelling, and discharge (pus).
Don
October 1, 2022What about when I hurt my hands from punching things?
Wedge
August 28, 2025Don, if your skin is damaged and bruised, do first aid. If you’ve lost sensation or are in pain, go to the hospital or drop-in clinic or at least speak to a health care professional, such as a national helpline.
Lou
August 24, 2022What about nipping of the skin so hard that it leaves red, angry permanent scars?
Wedge
February 26, 2023Hello Lou, are you asking for first aid for your nips and scars? Consider gentle warmth or cooling if that helps, and see our page about scar reduction.
(If you were checking to see if nipping ‘counts’ as self-injury, then we believe that any self-injurious behaviour that’s used as a way of coping is indeed self-injury.)
Moss
August 11, 2022I need help dressing my wounds, beyond a bandage.
Wedge
August 28, 2025Moss, having read your question that I edited, you likely need medical attention, more than simple first aid. I really hope you (and everyone) have mental and emotional support – you deserve more than to be left alone with your self-injury, you deserve so much more in life.
Mark
December 6, 2021Where can I get sterile [tools] to help prevent infection?
Wedge
August 28, 2025This is a fair question, but a difficult topic to address in public, without careful thought, as we need to avoid promoting self-injury (this is a legal and moral duty).
Lin
October 28, 2021What about head banging, punching/hitting ones self, or hair-pulling?
Wedge
November 8, 2021We often talk about banging and hair-pulling, but we’ll need to update this page to consider first aid for concussion, bruises, and bleeding scalps, thank you.
april love
July 14, 2021thank you for this, and thank you for not saying “just don’t do it” and acknowledging that some people feel the need to do this. thank you.
anonymous
July 10, 2021i scratch myself repeatedly. it doesn’t make me bleed, but i still have lasting scars. is there any type of care i should be doing after i scratch? is it even as serious as the other types of si?
Sam
February 15, 2021Do you have advice for stabbing?
Wedge
February 17, 2021All deeper wounds need urgent medical advice or attention.
Acid
November 15, 2020i have been self-harming since the age of 10 after i was told both of my dad was killed in an accident. i’m a teenager now and strugel with self-harm. And the voices make it harder to fight the urge how can i quiet the voices
Felicity
September 24, 2020i have been self-harming since i was 8 and I’m a tteanager now, i have struggled through lots of things, i have PTSD, Depression, Social Anxiety, Anxiety and possibly more, i tend to use self-harm as a coping method but many people tell me to stop, they dont get its hard to stop though. i’m worried about healing and infection, but I can’t ask for the urgent help I need because no one knows about it, what do i do?
Sue
May 26, 2023Hi felicity. There are some brilliant forums here online and im sure loads of advice on google. I know what you mean ppl tell me to just stop it! all the time. Its incredibly hard for me to just stop. it’s almost like an addiction for me.This goes for you and anybody else on here. Xx
Kody
August 26, 2020I have been hurting myself since i was 11 and I feel reliant upon it. I have come very close to permanent damage to veins and arteries but i am still unable to control my compulsions. I have tried many techniques to stop self-harming but I continue to struggle even after 2 years.
Jul
July 5, 2020I’ve been struggling with self harm for 3 years, my partner can see how much I’m struggling and tries to do everything she can to help but sometimes it’s too much and I can’t control my urges and I just cut, i don’t worry about the implications my actions have because it helps me to cope with my problems and I’ve been doing it for so long that I know how to clean it and everything. But I know I need help I just don’t want to talk to people face to face because I struggle doing that.
Ellie
April 8, 2020I can’t stop self harming and I don’t know what to do. It is just now part of my life. I do it everyday, a few times a day. I don’t know how to stop.
Kat
February 15, 2020I just now self harmed. it’s hard to stop yourself. you get so upset or worked up you just think of doing it. im so young and have so much to live for but i feel i dont have anything. this made me want to stop and i cleaned my wound as it said too. thank you…
Emm
January 27, 2020I harm my self once in a while more like whenever i’m stressed the most. I can’t stop. what should I do?
Mitch
February 22, 2024Try to figure out your problem and what triggers cutting, if you can’t, look up alternatives such as, hitting your skin with rubber bands or holding ice.
Mena
October 24, 2019It’s hard but you’ll get through it, i hurt myself and i don’t wanna do it but he helps me a lot but i recommend you to stop doing it asap bc your life is at risk and i care about everyone who reads this, you are loved and cared for
josh
May 2, 2019how can I stop hurting myself I don’t cut but I often punch walls or I hit myself in the face multiple times. the pain does not bother me what does is the hurt that it causes to the people I love I really do want to stop I just don’t know how