For the duration of this 15 minute ‘waiting period’ try to keep yourself occupied; go for a walk, flick through the TV without watching anything, or write down the cause of your distress, write a letter to yourself about your feelings. After 15 minutes, you can check how you feel, and how you feel about the urge.

You could choose to hurt yourself now, or you could choose to wait another 15 minutes.

You can keep playing this 15-minute game, and maybe the urge will pass, maybe not, but it’s your choice at every 15 minute step.

If you get through the urge and manage not to hurt yourself, perhaps you can ring a friend and tell them, or perhaps you can tell me on Wedge@lifesigns.org.uk

Congratulate yourself, you made it!